DJ’ing A Fetish Ball…

Glitter. Glitter. Glitter. When I was asked to dj the “My Love Hurts Fetish Ball,” a fundraiser for Pride Kansas City. I didn’t hesitate a second in saying yes. But I wasn’t sure what to expect…or how my “dj attire” would go over. We all know I’ve dj’ed in less. I dj in the nude every summer for Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs at Magnetic Valley Resort, it’s a men’s only clothing optional resort.

While I was deciding on shoes to match my dj attire…It dawned on me that I didn’t even contemplate what I was wearing. I had already decided on leather without even really thinking about which fetish I was going to highlight. My only hesitation then was being the “guy” that was overdressed…well in this case underdressed might work better.

I decided it was time to try the outfit on and see what my hubs thought about it. I took a quick pic:

DJ Leather!

His first response was: “Oh My God! You are SUPER HOT!” Quickly followed by: “You are going to need an escort out of the building to your car.” Ha. That’s the type of response I was looking for.

After that it was time to get down to business and work on a set list for the ball of balls. I rarely stick to my setlist and typically go off of the crowd but at last nights event the two were so perfectly mixed I actually played 90% of the songs on my set list. WOW!

Oh so they had live demonstrations at the ball too! Now I had heard of “pups” but never actually seen them in person. That was certainly different. And I totes agree with the host that it takes BALLS to get out there and demonstrate your fetish outside of the bedroom. I mean seriously the guys had on leather masks that looked like dog faces, they played fetch, did tricks…it was wild. But for me watching the “flogging” demonstration was probably the most intense. The flogger and the boy being flogged in his undies was SO into it…I turned the music down to hear him moan. I had no idea it was that erotic.

I had so much fun at the event. I wonder what they will add to next years festivities…. I kind of hope the include Furries into the next one. I like them. Well getting my picture taking with them. Glitter only knows what I will have come up with to wear. Here are a couple more pics from the party.

Taste the dj.

Look at that bum.

…not an Oprah moment.

Last weekend was bitter-sweet for this lil gay. I had to miss out on one of my close friends turning 40. Sadface.com/me

I hear she had a fabulous “Hampton’s” themed pool party. Which means my birthday pool party coming up HAS to be trashy. BTW Jennifer still waiting on pics from your party… I missed out on the festivities because I worked a couple of promotions that weekend with Studio-D Productions. I loved working with them and can’t wait to work more in the future.

Those two events took up my Friday and Saturday nights…leaving me wide open for Sunday to celebrate my sister in-law’s 40′th birthday. Which brings me to the bitter-sweet. I hate that I missed Jennifer’s birthday but I’m glad I was finally able to do something with the Wilson Women. Chris and I have been together 8 years and this is the first time I’ve been able to participate in one of the girl outings. I really hope we do more of these outings. I may have to start planning a monthly out and about for us…I just had so much fun. Talk about ending the weekend on a high note.

I almost didn’t make it to the Sunday party though. My Saturday ended with me getting home around 5am. (Don’t ask.) Only to be woken up by Christopher at 9:38am reminding me I had a birthday party to attend at one of my favorite lil hot spots. I leapt out of bed in search of my phone. I had planned on riding in the car with all the ladies so I could DRINK my brunch. And the sin wagon was pulling out at 10am with or without this diva. I had to let them know I was on my way. I was showered, shaved, and styled before 10am. Thankfully I made it in time to catch my ride even if I did look a lil hung over. Praise glitter for big sunglasses.

While I would love to provide you with vivid details of said birthday party…I succeeded in drinking my brunch, I laughed so hard I cried not once but multiple times, and I performed in DRAG. Yes. In drag. Couldn’t you just die to witness this in person. You are in luck. Below are a collection of videos I took and I saved the drag one for last.

Marie (birthday girl) is doing body shots for the first time in her LIFE!

 

Ginger was absolutely cracking me up when she started stripping. I. Die.

 

I had no idea I was going to be doing DRAG. No idea. Loretta is a sweet heart and dressed me while Daisy is a bitch and I love her.

Wilson Ladies