DJ’ing A Fetish Ball…

Glitter. Glitter. Glitter. When I was asked to dj the “My Love Hurts Fetish Ball,” a fundraiser for Pride Kansas City. I didn’t hesitate a second in saying yes. But I wasn’t sure what to expect…or how my “dj attire” would go over. We all know I’ve dj’ed in less. I dj in the nude every summer for Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs at Magnetic Valley Resort, it’s a men’s only clothing optional resort.

While I was deciding on shoes to match my dj attire…It dawned on me that I didn’t even contemplate what I was wearing. I had already decided on leather without even really thinking about which fetish I was going to highlight. My only hesitation then was being the “guy” that was overdressed…well in this case underdressed might work better.

I decided it was time to try the outfit on and see what my hubs thought about it. I took a quick pic:

DJ Leather!

His first response was: “Oh My God! You are SUPER HOT!” Quickly followed by: “You are going to need an escort out of the building to your car.” Ha. That’s the type of response I was looking for.

After that it was time to get down to business and work on a set list for the ball of balls. I rarely stick to my setlist and typically go off of the crowd but at last nights event the two were so perfectly mixed I actually played 90% of the songs on my set list. WOW!

Oh so they had live demonstrations at the ball too! Now I had heard of “pups” but never actually seen them in person. That was certainly different. And I totes agree with the host that it takes BALLS to get out there and demonstrate your fetish outside of the bedroom. I mean seriously the guys had on leather masks that looked like dog faces, they played fetch, did tricks…it was wild. But for me watching the “flogging” demonstration was probably the most intense. The flogger and the boy being flogged in his undies was SO into it…I turned the music down to hear him moan. I had no idea it was that erotic.

I had so much fun at the event. I wonder what they will add to next years festivities…. I kind of hope the include Furries into the next one. I like them. Well getting my picture taking with them. Glitter only knows what I will have come up with to wear. Here are a couple more pics from the party.

Taste the dj.

Look at that bum.

A Night Out

A few weeks ago there was a Gay Pride Celebration in Kansas City. Chris and I came up for the weekend to celebrate and meet some new friends. We were still waiting to hear back from the realtor about the farm we wanted. (Thankfully we did get it!)

So we went out for dinner, on what I consider to be the most magical night of nights GAY Pride night, to this gem of a Thai restaurant called LuLu’s. Dinner was fab, the atmosphere was perfect, and the waiter kept my Ginger Martini’s coming.

Thankfully we were meeting some people at this new bar called Lux. Which is a new vibrant take on the tired old disco gay bars in KC.

Absolutely loved hanging with Kevin and his bf Doug. They introduced us to some of their close friends and after a few shots we were all dancing the night away.

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“@lulus in #KC for dinner. “