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…not an Oprah moment.

Last weekend was bitter-sweet for this lil gay. I had to miss out on one of my close friends turning 40. Sadface.com/me

I hear she had a fabulous “Hampton’s” themed pool party. Which means my birthday pool party coming up HAS to be trashy. BTW Jennifer still waiting on pics from your party… I missed out on the festivities because I worked a couple of promotions that weekend with Studio-D Productions. I loved working with them and can’t wait to work more in the future.

Those two events took up my Friday and Saturday nights…leaving me wide open for Sunday to celebrate my sister in-law’s 40′th birthday. Which brings me to the bitter-sweet. I hate that I missed Jennifer’s birthday but I’m glad I was finally able to do something with the Wilson Women. Chris and I have been together 8 years and this is the first time I’ve been able to participate in one of the girl outings. I really hope we do more of these outings. I may have to start planning a monthly out and about for us…I just had so much fun. Talk about ending the weekend on a high note.

I almost didn’t make it to the Sunday party though. My Saturday ended with me getting home around 5am. (Don’t ask.) Only to be woken up by Christopher at 9:38am reminding me I had a birthday party to attend at one of my favorite lil hot spots. I leapt out of bed in search of my phone. I had planned on riding in the car with all the ladies so I could DRINK my brunch. And the sin wagon was pulling out at 10am with or without this diva. I had to let them know I was on my way. I was showered, shaved, and styled before 10am. Thankfully I made it in time to catch my ride even if I did look a lil hung over. Praise glitter for big sunglasses.

While I would love to provide you with vivid details of said birthday party…I succeeded in drinking my brunch, I laughed so hard I cried not once but multiple times, and I performed in DRAG. Yes. In drag. Couldn’t you just die to witness this in person. You are in luck. Below are a collection of videos I took and I saved the drag one for last.

Marie (birthday girl) is doing body shots for the first time in her LIFE!

 

Ginger was absolutely cracking me up when she started stripping. I. Die.

 

I had no idea I was going to be doing DRAG. No idea. Loretta is a sweet heart and dressed me while Daisy is a bitch and I love her.

Wilson Ladies

I’m worth a looky-loo…

I’ve been applying for jobs in the KC area since March…know how many calls and emails I’ve gotten…NONE. Devastating to say the least. It’s hard for me to apply for a job. I know you shouldn’t take the no-callback/no-reply emails as a personal statement about how you just aren’t good enough but that’s how I take it. I only apply at places I can see myself working at and ultimately that are going to make me happy. If this Diva isn’t happy no one is happy. That being said…what’s a girl to do. I’ve reworked and reworded my resume to death over the last 5 months and have nothing to show for it. I’ve been literally emailing a Death Certificate instead of a resume. Then I decided late yesterday afternoon while cruising the job market on pyramid scheme Craigslist and CareerUnbuilder that I needed to do something to make my resume standout. And I don’t mean “Oh that’s a really great cover letter.” I say fuck the cover letter. Look at my resume. I am worth your time. I figured why not just put myself into the resume. Design something worth looking at. Show them right off that I didn’t just put some random words together in a misguided attempt to get a job. I don’t know if this idea will work. I don’t know what the reaction will be. But I do know one thing. I don’t want to work at a place that thinks my resume is a waste of time.

 

P.S. I have a references sheet too…but I didn’t want to post their info for EVERYone to see.

Sunday Funday

If you didn’t know I love to cook. I haven’t made kabob’s in ages and they were by far the best thing on the menu for the evening. We had over a house-full of family and friends. Our friend Warren and his little girl Teighlor came over. We really planned this part though. Teighlor like Chloe has a gay dad and we really wanted them to meet and play. Mainly to see that they aren’t the only kids they know with a gar parent.

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“Family & Friends Sunday Funday w/Greek #chickenkabob #turkeyburger and rosemary red potatoes. “

Off and running.

Awe running. I am not known as a runner. And up until a few weeks ago the last time I ran was in 2003. But I convinced myself and Chris that to meet some respectable gays we would have to join a group outside of the slutosphere…ie. the youthful grindr, aging manhunt.net, and the tired gay.com.

Not only have we met some amazeball guys in the group and I have to say I am in love with how great running is for slimming my waist.  If you are in the KC metro area or visiting anytime soon check out the facebook page for Kansas City Frontruners and join us on a run.

 

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“#gay #kcfrontrunners #runninggroup #love #shirtless”

I am my hair.

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I get asked sometimes how I fix my hair. So I thought I would post a pic of me flat ironing the beast. It’s the only way to get those wavy locks under control. Granted it used to take me a good 30 mins to do my hair but after a year of daily abuse. I can get it ready in about 10 mins.

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“I am my hair. #shirtless #gay “

A Night Out

A few weeks ago there was a Gay Pride Celebration in Kansas City. Chris and I came up for the weekend to celebrate and meet some new friends. We were still waiting to hear back from the realtor about the farm we wanted. (Thankfully we did get it!)

So we went out for dinner, on what I consider to be the most magical night of nights GAY Pride night, to this gem of a Thai restaurant called LuLu’s. Dinner was fab, the atmosphere was perfect, and the waiter kept my Ginger Martini’s coming.

Thankfully we were meeting some people at this new bar called Lux. Which is a new vibrant take on the tired old disco gay bars in KC.

Absolutely loved hanging with Kevin and his bf Doug. They introduced us to some of their close friends and after a few shots we were all dancing the night away.

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“@lulus in #KC for dinner. “

Stop, look and listen.

I may not be starting fights in the yard but I’d do anything for a Lil Kim poster. Miss her. I’m still waiting for the next CD to drop. Until then here’s the skinny on last week. My friend Jared and I finally got to lay out and I’m so glad he brought his own shortie shorts.  Fear not I had my favorite Aussie Bum trunks on. The same pair I wore to GAY Days where I saw 5′s and 10′s of people wearing the same thing. (fail)

Loves to Pose.

Sadly I did not get a feather in my hair. And yes I am epically disappointed. (whitegirlproblems) Word on the street is that it will be happening next week. I hope so. I think a giant Peacock feather would look A-mazing on me. Course I’m biased and slightly delusional.

Love my job.

Oh. My. Glitter.  You are going to so wish you were with me last Saturday. I dj’ed at one of my FAVORITE stores MACA Clothe. Love that place and the hot owner Mandy. She was looking beyond fierce. I was ecstatic to dj for her and those lovely ladies. We had so much fun dancing and I even learned how to do the “Wobble!” I can promise you I did not look like these people. I really need to find someone to teach me how to dance.